If you and your
partner were stranded on a desert island, how much time would you spend doing
it? If you answered 24/7 that’s one of the signs you sexually satisfy your
partner, and your partner satisfies you. But in real life, how can you tell if
you’re good in bed?
You might think
that wanting to know if you sexually satisfy your partner makes you needy. But
that’s far from the truth. It’s fine for you to want validation, sexual or
otherwise. PsychCentral reported that the desire for validation was one of
the strongest motivators of human behavior. Given that some psychologists agree
that validation has positive effects on how you live your life (in and out of
bed), there’s no reason to get down on yourself for wanting to know if you
sexually please your partner.
But just make
sure you check your motivations for needing sexual approval from your partner.
When wondering if you sexually satisfy your SO, are you wondering because you
want a pat on the back for a job well done or are you afraid that your partner
might stray if you’re not good in bed? Although many partners do cheat because
the sex in their current relationship isn’t satisfying, just as
many people cheat because they lack emotional connection from their
partner, according to Psychology Today.In other words, your sex
life doesn’t define the sum total of your relationship. And that old adage
about communication being key in a healthy partnership holds true here as well.
There’s no harm in asking your partner about your sexual performance or looking
out for the following signs that you sexually satisfy your partner.
1.You’re Perceptive In Life
If you think
you’re sexually satisfying your partner, chances are you actually are. Women’s
Health noted a study published in the Archives of Sexual
Behavior found that you should trust your gut when it comes
to your sexual skills. Being perceptive is a sign that you know how to read all
kinds of situations, including how your mate thinks you perform.
A different
study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior indicated
that couples who are sexually satisfied with each other like to
cuddle, caress, and share moments of intimacy after sex. This study found
that women more than men felt more sexually satisfied when their partners show
post sex affection.
3.You’re Not Easily Threatened
According to
Thought Catalog, if your sexuality isn’t easily threatened, you know you’ve
got skills in the sack. In a world where sex is available with the swipe of
finger, if you play it cool and act like you’re not sexually vulnerable, it’s a
sign that you’re the bomb dot com between the sheets and your partner is
enjoying your skills.
4.Your Partner Is Always Learning New Tricks
If
your partner is constantly expanding his repertoire of sexual skills,
that’s a sign they want to satisfy you because you’re satisfying them,
according to another article in Women’s Health. This is especially
true for men because, as the article noted, men are naturally competitive by
nature, and if he’s going for gold, it’s because he thinks you’re platinum.
5.You Have Spontaneous Sex
Men’s
Fitness reported that spontaneous
sex is a sign your partner is sexually satisfied. Why? Well, first, it’s a
common sexual fantasy. And second, it means that you both can’t wait to get it
on, meaning your partner is really crazy about your sex life.
The golden rule
of sex is that people who brag about how good they are usually are
overcompensating, according to the same article in Thought Catalog. So,
conversely, if you don’t find yourself bragging about your sexual skills,
that’s a sign that you know you’re satisfying your partner.
Sex coach J.
Dallas told Bustle that a sign that your partner is sexually satisfied by you
is if he or she likes to examine your lady parts. Curiosity, she said, is
not only a sign that your partner is into you, but that he or she is creative
in bed. Lucky you.
Building off the
previous point, Dallas added that if a partner gives you oral on the regular,
take that as a sign that he or she is super invested in your sexual
relationship, and getting satisfied. Why? As Dallas pointed out, no one likes
to put something foreign in his or her mouth, so if oral is going on all the
time, chances are you guys have an intimate relationship that gets you both off.9Your
Partner Gets Romanticg
The same article
in Men’s Fitness reported that men want to please women to let
them know that they’re happy with your bedroom rapport. So, if you find rose
petals at the foot of the bed, a common sexual fantasy, according to the
article, pat yourself on the back. And then do what you do so well.
Sure, a guy is
likely to say many things to get a woman into bed. But if he’s super flirty post
coitus, noted Women’s Health, take that as a sign that he’s been
sexually satisfied by your skills.
11.You’re An Active
Listenerg
Thought Catalog
noted that being an active listener is a sign that you’re sexual napalm. Why?
Well, think about it. Being an active listener requires commitment, interest,
empathy, and generosity. And, according to Psych Central, active listening
builds trust.
You might not
always recognize that the traits you have in life translate to how effectively
you perform in bed. But they do, so have a look at yourself and not just your
partner to gauge your sexual prowess.
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