If you and your
partner were stranded on a desert island, how much time would you spend doing
it? If you answered 24/7 that’s one of the signs you sexually satisfy your
partner, and your partner satisfies you. But in real life, how can you tell if
you’re good in bed?
You might think
that wanting to know if you sexually satisfy your partner makes you needy. But
that’s far from the truth. It’s fine for you to want validation, sexual or
otherwise. PsychCentral reported that the desire for validation was one of
the strongest motivators of human behavior. Given that some psychologists agree
that validation has positive effects on how you live your life (in and out of
bed), there’s no reason to get down on yourself for wanting to know if you
sexually please your partner.
